{"id":18996,"date":"2024-12-24T12:59:49","date_gmt":"2024-12-24T12:59:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/topnewsin34.info\/?p=18996"},"modified":"2024-12-24T12:59:49","modified_gmt":"2024-12-24T12:59:49","slug":"i-refuse-to-host-christmas-after","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/topnewsin34.info\/?p=18996","title":{"rendered":"I Refuse to Host Christmas After"},"content":{"rendered":"

Holidays are a time for families to get together, spend quality time together, and make lasting memories.<\/p>\n

But sometimes, even with the best intentions, things don\u2019t go as planned.<\/p>\n

A small thoughtless action can have a big impact, resulting in feelings of frustration and disappointment.<\/p>\n

One reader recently shared how a Thanksgiving dinner turned into a dilemma when her mother-in-law\u2019s actions left her questioning whether she wanted to host Christmas or any future family celebrations.<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s her story<\/p>\n

My husband and I hosted our families for Thanksgiving. With my mother\u2019s help, I prepared three turkeys and an entire Thanksgiving feast.<\/p>\n

Meanwhile, my mother-in-law contributed only a tray of cookies.<\/p>\n

We had a lovely evening with good food and great company. Later in the evening, as the guests left, I noticed the food on the table was gone.<\/p>\n

I went to bed assuming my MIL handled the cleanup, especially since she hadn\u2019t contributed any dishes.<\/p>\n

The next morning, when I opened the fridge, I froze in horror at what I saw-Inside were just a bag of dressing and a few cookies, nothing else!<\/p>\n

Thinking there had to be some mistake, I checked the fridge in the garage, but it was empty too.<\/p>\n

I sat down, stunned, struggling to comprehend what had happened to all that food.<\/p>\n

When my husband came into the kitchen, I asked if he had donated the leftovers to a charity.<\/p>\n

He said no but mentioned that he had seen his mom carrying out several foil-wrapped containers.<\/p>\n

I genuinely enjoyed preparing a meal for everyone to share, and I was more than happy for guests to take a fair share of leftovers.<\/p>\n

But to empty the fridge entirely and take almost everything? That crosses the line and feels downright disrespectful.<\/p>\n

Now, I don\u2019t want to host Christmas because of my mother-in-law\u2019s unexplainable behavior.<\/p>\n

To make matters worse, my husband seems more upset with me for refusing to host than with his mom for what she did. I\u2019m so disappointed and frustrated.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Holidays are a time for families to get together, spend quality time together, and make lasting memories. But sometimes, even with the best intentions, things don\u2019t go as planned. A small thoughtless action can have a big impact, resulting in feelings of frustration and disappointment. One reader recently shared how a Thanksgiving dinner turned into […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":18998,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18996","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/topnewsin34.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18996","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/topnewsin34.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/topnewsin34.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/topnewsin34.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/topnewsin34.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=18996"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/topnewsin34.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18996\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":18999,"href":"https:\/\/topnewsin34.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18996\/revisions\/18999"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/topnewsin34.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/18998"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/topnewsin34.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=18996"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/topnewsin34.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=18996"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/topnewsin34.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=18996"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}