When Matt offered to pay our rent, I thought it was an act of love. He promised to take care of us,

but it quickly became clear that his generosity was actually control. Moving in together felt like a step

toward building a life, but I was concerned about not being able to split the rent. Matt reassured me, saying he’d cover it so I could focus on my job at the shelter. However,

once we moved in, the situation shifted. Matt took control of the space—his things filled the apartment, while

my belongings were shoved into a closet. He told me I needed to start cooking,as a “thanks” for him covering rent.

It was clear now: his paying for everything meant he made the rules. Instead of confronting him directly,

calmly agreed and handed him the lunch I’d bought with my own money. Then, I called for backup—Matt’s father arrived

and confronted him, pointing out that money doesn’t give you the right to treat others like property. Matt was humiliated. That night,

I packed my things, with Mr. Reynolds’ help, and left. Matt stayed behind, alone, while I found a small studio apartment

that was all mine. I was free, with my dignity intact. The lesson? Generosity with strings attached isn’t generosity

at all—it’s a trap. Love should never come with fine print, and I’d rather struggle on my own than live under someone else’s control.