A new mother, sharing her experience on the “AITA” subreddit, detailed her mother-in-law’s unexpected cleaning of her home while she was in the hospital giving birth. The MIL, without being asked, cleaned the entire house and left a note demanding reimbursement for cleaning expenses. The couple was shocked by the demand and expressed their gratitude but questioned her actions.
The husband addressed the situation with his mother, expressing concerns about her intrusion and the unexpected demand for payment. The MIL defended her actions, claiming kindness, but the couple faced criticism from extended family members. Feeling upset, the wife resisted the husband’s suggestion to pay his mother for family harmony. The MIL later offered to gift the cleaning products but insisted on payment for her time, leaving the woman torn between family peace and her principles. She sought advice, questioning if she was wrong for refusing to pay her MIL.
